Kanye West’s treatment of his romantic partners is once again under scrutiny, particularly for how he publicly presents them.
His history of influencing their appearances through bold fashion choices has sparked debate, with critics arguing that he prioritizes his artistic vision over their autonomy. This pattern is evident in his current marriage to Bianca Censori, whom some claim he is shaping into a new version of his ex-wife, Kim Kardashian.
Julia Fox, one of West’s former partners, revealed in her memoir that she often felt like a “show monkey” during their brief relationship. She recounted how their romance was marked by extravagant displays, meticulously curated outfits, and West’s control over how she was perceived in the media. At times, he even suggested cosmetic changes to fit his desired image. Her experience echoes concerns that West treats his relationships as extensions of his creative expression rather than genuine partnerships.
Most recently, West sparked controversy at the Grammy Awards when he instructed Censori to remove her coat, leaving her in a revealing ensemble that shocked onlookers. A lip-reading expert suggested he told her she was “making a scene” before directing her movements. The incident fueled ongoing discussions about his influence over his wives and whether his actions are a reflection of control rather than artistic collaboration. Conflicting reports emerged about whether the couple left voluntarily or were asked to leave, further adding to the speculation.
Fox’s relationship with West followed a similar trajectory of media spectacle and orchestrated moments. From their whirlwind romance, which began on New Year’s Eve in Miami, to their coordinated fashion statements, West appeared to carefully shape their public image. However, as time went on, Fox began questioning whether their connection was genuine or simply a performance. She ultimately ended the relationship when she realized she was being used as a distraction from Kardashian rather than being valued for who she was.
After their breakup, Fox reflected on how her association with West had lasting consequences, including potentially being blacklisted in certain professional circles. While she has no regrets about speaking out, her experience highlights the challenges of maintaining personal identity in high-profile relationships. Her story serves as a cautionary tale about the emotional and professional costs of being romantically involved with a figure as polarizing as West.